On a Tuesday.

Although I’ve got so much to say, I can’t seem to trust my ability to string words into sentences and sentences into meaningful paragraphs.  As I recover from a scary near literal attempt to lose my mind, please enjoy the following programming (also known as 50+ articles I bookmarked for when I had time to read again)

 

Why we run:

http://runningtimes.com/Article.aspx?ArticleID=5823&PageNum=1

 

 

Is this what marriage has come to?  And sadly, I can somehow see the appeal…

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/21369007/ns/health-behavior/t/some-couples-distance-key-closeness/#.UCFcos3cBbx

 

 

A good perspective

http://www.marcandangel.com/2011/12/18/30-things-to-start-doing-for-yourself/

 

On breaking up with friends

http://www.nytimes.com/2012/01/29/fashion/its-not-me-its-you-how-to-end-a-friendship.html?_r=2&pagewanted=all

 

Sickening, but I’ve been guilty in the past…I put my phone down a lot more now…

http://www.nytimes.com/2011/05/01/fashion/01FAMILY.html?pagewanted=all

 

Because this was distractingly entertaining and made me happy

http://sincerelyhana.com/projects/switcheroo

 

..and this

http://www.petapixel.com/2012/07/27/five-friends-take-the-same-group-photo-for-30-years/

 

And, for what it’s worth

http://www.glamour.com/sex-love-life/blogs/smitten/2012/02/small-penises-worshipped-throu.html

 

Round 2 coming soon….

 

I don’t want to put you in a cage; I want to love you.” – Paul Varjak

Crossfit

I’m feeling the need to step away from my ridiculously long to-do list and reoccurring desire to be one of those strange people who doesn’t need sleep to talk about one little part of my life that has been keeping me sane.  See, for the last (nearly) three months, I have been waking up at 4:30 am (yes, AM) to drive the 25 minutes off the island to make it to Crossfit for the 5:15 class. I’m pretty sure if you know me at all, you know that I am NOT a morning person.  People have gone as far as to call me a drunken zombie during my first hour of waking.   I generally spend the first 45 minutes of my day walking around with crazy, unbrushed bed hair and a pitiful pout on my face, eyes half shut, trying to blink whatever moisture is left on my eyeballs from sleeping in contacts the night before….need I say more?  If you haven’t witnessed this, you are really missing out.   Nothing says sexy like a 23 year old ambulating like an old lady because her joints hurt and she can’t find her Aleve in the pile of  shit obstacles in her room.  Did I really just type ambulating instead of walking?  Damn OT school. What was I talking about?  Oh. Crossfit.

 

I was thinking about it this morning on my drive back to Galveston Island.  The sun was barely threatening to rise and I was doing my best not to lose my dinner of red wine, red bull, and popcorn from the night before. (Give me a break; it’s the end of the most stressful semester of my life). I had just completed a workout that made me push myself to my max- 2 exercises, both with weights, heavy weights.  3 rounds were required, but no set amount of repetitions- just as many as you could do till you collapsed, then move on to the other exercise, and repeat.  I’m pretty sure at some point during my last round, I heard a guttural noise that roughly resembled the sound of birthing a pumpkin… Whether it actually came from me remains to be seen.

 

As I drove, red faced and yawning from my 2 hours of sleep the night before, I looked in the mirror, and saw a pair of eyes that belonged to a crazy person.  Those eyes looked alive, alert, excited, driven, powerful…and crazy.  People ask me how I can make the drive 3 times a week, how I can get up so early and make it through my hectic, demanding day, how I can make it through the workout, etc. etc.  My response is always two fold:

I Crossfit because I love it…and because we all know I’m a little bit crazy.

 

Since I’m sure every one of my friends has at least one story that could be titled “Rachel’s lost it again: Genius or Madness?”, (could make for some interesting stories/comments, my friends), I’ll spare you my beliefs on why I am the way I am….but I do want to talk a little about why I’ve become so passionate about Crossfit.

 

It’s not about the weight.  Never once have a heard a crossfitter in my gym mention the word “fat”, I haven’t heard a single person complain about their love handles, and I certainly have never caught someone checking themselves out in the mirror, simply because there are none in the gym. It’s not about that.  I’ll be honest; I have gone into other gyms and checked people’s bodies’ out- who hasn’t? …But at crossfit it is different.  It’s about seeing what your body can DO, how far your body can take you, as opposed to what your body looks like, and I LOVE that.

But then again…it is about the weight.  Although some workouts are body weight workouts, most incorporate Olympic weight lifts into the WOD (workout of the day).  I would be lying if I said that these lifts didn’t still scare the be-jeezus out of me every time I see them scribbled on the white board, but I’m slowly learning to appreciate the objectiveness of it.  Those numbers, that amount of weight you can lift- they’re measurable-not to be used to measure yourself against other people, but to measure yourself against your own personal best.  Needless to say, I find the weight lifting the absolute most challenging, but also something that I never anticipated appreciating before I began Crossfit.

 

The people.  From my first day there, I have been treated with nothing but kindness. (well, I take that back, there was one lady in the boot camp class that was dropping snide comments about kicking me out of the class because I was showing her up…but still..) The people are just absolutely great.  Attending at 5:15, I work out with all people older than me, mostly parents…but that doesn’t matter. We cheer each other on, push each other, catch up , laugh, joke, and give weak high fives when we are flat on our backs after a difficult workout.  I feel accepted.

 

I crossfit because it is empowering.  I don’t know how many times this semester I have simply wanted to break down and cry due to the extreme amount of pressure I am under in my program.  My pity party ends as soon as I walk into the Crossfit Box. My mind clears, and I am constantly reminded that I am more powerful than I’ve ever believed possible.  I am reminded that I am too stubborn to quit and that I can push myself through anything that I set my mind to.  I leave the gym with a renewed sense of self, a fresh mindset, and the confidence to continue forging my way through this tough semester. That is priceless.

 

Lastly, I love crossfit because it’s ridiculous.  I love being ridiculous, and crossfit delivers.  It is ridiculously hard, ridiculously fun, and ridiculously worth every ounce of effort you put into it.  I’ve come to learn that a life that doesn’t include some form of ridiculousness…well, it just isn’t that enjoyable.

 

I have absolutely no clever or resolute way to end this post, so I’ll just leave you with this:

Of Interest…

Since my week started off with an intense test and will end with one too, with a team project to lead and two big assignments in between (aaannnd 28 hours of class), I’m just gonna throw out a few things I’ve found on the interweb of late that has interested me.  Enjoy!

Some “me” time after crossfit on Saturday brought me to Barnes and Noble to peruse some magazines and down some coffee- this quote really resonated with me:

And since I’m starving right now, a recipe I will be making this week….

http://smittenkitchen.com/2012/01/buttermilk-roast-chicken/

OH, but guess what I won’t be having for lunch today?  A mouth to anus camera, that’s what.  My ramen noodles are going down alone!

http://www.foodandtechconnect.com/site/2012/02/01/ramen-data-from-mouth-to-anus-m2a-smartpill/

Do you think going out with makeup is brave?  This post was kind of on the ranty side, but it makes a pretty dang valid point.

http://thegloss.com/beauty/no-make-up-brave-882/

If you don’t like vulgarity, sex talk, or absolute greatness, you probably shouldn’t read this next one…What do you think about it?

http://www.rachelwilkerson.com/2010/05/27/guys-dating-rating-system/

Speaking of lewd and crude, if I had a boyfriend, he would be receiving these for Valentines day.

http://thegloss.com/fashion/valentines-day-gift-boyfriend-shorts-180/

Guess I’ll just have to buy myself this instead:

http://www.thebeerbelly.com/The_Winerack_Small_p/200-007.htm

And, if you want a little insight in to what I’m working on this week, you can check this out:

http://www.wheelessonline.com/ortho/radial_nerve_palsy_following_frx_of_the_humerus

…Just add a homeless man who suffered a traumatic brain injury who incurred fractures of the humerus, radius, and wrist with radial nerve damage caused by a brachial plexus tear that has no insurance and is about to be kicked out of the hospital…….quick, how do you intervene!??  10 points to the person who can come up with an intervention plan for me before Friday.  Thankyouverymuch. Gotta love OT school, right?

Apply/Invest

Well, here I am again, after another haitus from tracking, writing, blogging, etc.  I spent an awesome 3 day weekend in Houston/Austin and am preparing for my 3rd busy week  back in school- hard to believe that Tech doesn’t start until this Thursday which is when my first test is scheduled!  Grad school is certainly a different world, that’s for sure.

I feel like with every new year, I usually get a refreshed desire to get “back on track” as most of the world does.  Typically I mark it by writing something, maybe laying out some plans, some resolutions, some dreams, or even a recap on the last year (which, honestly, I love and will probably do for the year 2011, what a year it was!).

But, for some reason, that “overhaul my life” feeling didn’t come when the clock struck midnight on the new year, nor did it show up in any of the days after.  It actually didn’t hit until this last week, when I let myself slow down a little and spend some time with my own thoughts. There are a couple other things I want to change, but I feel like those are even more personal than I want to include on this blog…since, you know, it’s out there for the world, and someday maybe my mom to see…

I was reading one of the blogs I lurk on (rachelwilkerson.com -seriously, check it out, she’s great!) and stumbled across an idea I loved. Instead of sitting down and making lists of unattainable goals that I will forget over the course of the year, I decided to choose one word that I could keep with me for the year, one word that would remind me where and who I want to be.  Words to me are very powerful things…I have a terrible memory for actual spoken word, but written- it sticks.  If you know me at all, you know that one of the most powerful words in my life is the word “courage”- it may seem silly, but that word has gotten me through more than I could even begin to express.  So, I sat down and analyzed some of the things I want 2012 to bring, and I actually came up with two words that I can hold close:

APPLY.

INVEST.

No, I’m not meaning apply for a loan, or invest in the stock market…to me these words mean something even more important.

The first word I chose, APPLY, was spurred on by some of the laziness I find myself falling in to at times. I often said in undergrad that I could  have made better grades if I tried, I could  eat healthy if I REALLY wanted to, I could  get more done in a day or push myself a little further….but I never really did.  And honestly, not living up to my personal potential was starting to bother me. I’ve become tired of thinking “ what if”- and am ready to apply myself to the things I hold important in my life- my school and learning in general, my health and fitness, and my relationships with others. I want to apply myself and see what happens when I’m not scared to fail or push myself.

The topic of relationships, friendships, brings me to my second word:

INVEST. The first aspect of this word that I chose pertains specifically to the important people in my life.  The relationships we carry with other people can directly affect our health, happiness, moods, thoughts, and general quality of life.  It’s become very aware to me in the last few months how these relationships and friendships should not be taken for granted.  Many have expiration dates that we have to learn to expect, and often people will come into our lives just when we werent’ even looking, sometimes just as someone else exits the scene.  What’s that saying about God and doors and windows?  I don’t know, something… haha.  But, in all sincerity, a big goal of mine is to invest in the important people in my life.  That means maybe taking a little bit more time , being a little more flexible, a little more understandable, a little more honest, a little less guarded, and generally just a lot of striving to be a good part in other people’s lives.

(this word also is on a sidetracked note applied to my finances as well. In the past 6 months I’ve just had this incredible urge to travel and experience every thing I possibly can, I feel like I’ve finally seen a bigger world, and a bigger life that I want to have beyond my previous limits….and that costs money. I’ve since been trying to spend less on material things and more on things like those trips, those races, those awesome meals with friends etc. It’s a work in progress, but I like how my priorities have shifted so far)

So, there you have it, my two words for 2012. I think it will be interesting to look back and see the ways in which these words are manifested in my life.  What is your 2012 word(s)?

I just like smiling, smiling’s my favorite.

Well, hello there. It’s been a while, huh? Life has just whizzed right by me, between the looming 2.5 week threat of final after final followed by days that have run into nights and early mornings into late afternoon…I’ve barely had time to catch my breath!  I’d be lying if I said that I didn’t sometimes feel exactly as I did in the last post, so I won’t even insult you by trying to prove otherwise.  This break has let me sleep, it’s let me think, soak in the last crazy 4 months.  I’ve cried and laughed and played and drank and ran and watched movies and spent a lot of time both alone and with others, and it has done a lot to calm my soul.  I guess I finally have figured, that yes, I have some things to be sad about, some hard points in my life that have made me reexamine a lot…but I’ve had even more reasons to smile.  Here are a few things that have made me smile in the past couple absent months of mine:

Gait Analysis with Keith- we made it fun :P

Greyhound races with friends (I’ve decided I will adopt one someday)

Colorado ski trip!  3 glorious days of skiing, falling on ice, drinking, and hot tubbing.  Fantastic, never wanted to leave.

Pink door gala- my friend Laura invited me to go to the masquerade dinner with her- they raise money for women who are fighting and conquering breast cancer- a great cause, and a perfect excuse to buy some sparkly shoes :)

Cooking for friends

And sharing a few plates of awesome pad thai..

Running the Turkey trot with Sarah and Tomas

Tacky Christmas Sweater OT party!

Dickens on the strand- we’ve decided, next year we are dressing up!

And finally, a trip to Lubbock to see my old team after finals.  A great time was had by all.

Of course, there were many other fun times in between that went undocumented, and it makes me sad I haven’t kept better track. Like I said, life has been a busy and bumpy ride, but in the end, I’ve chosen to smile.  :) Love you guys.